It is true that a lot of people want to lose weight for health
reasons, but it is also true that one of the primary reasons that makes people
think of their weight is because they want to look good. This is certainly
acceptable because what we look outside greatly affects how we feel about
ourselves inside. People who are leaner receive compliments from family and
friends and this improves their self-esteem in one way or another.
Fat (overweight)
people on the other hand are even criticized for being fat and this has a
negative impact on their self-esteem and sometimes it may even cause
depression. An overweight or obese person could even hear hurtful words like
“you are ugly”, “we don’t have your size”, and “you’ll die young” which could
pull their self-esteem to the ground.
Experts say that people with low self-esteem tend to eat more;
this is how their defense mechanism works and they do not have the willpower
needed to exercise and lose the extra weight. This means, that if you are
serious to shed the excess pounds, you should start in conditioning your mind
first.
1. Convert negative thoughts to positive ones
Negativism prevents anyone from achieving their goals. A good
dose of positive thought will greatly give you the drive to lose weight and be
physically fit. This means that instead of saying “I CAN’T do it”, say “I CAN
do it”, instead of saying “I DO NOT have the time for workouts”, say “I WILL
find time to workout.”
2. Don’t linger in the past
“Past is past; it’s time to move on” as they always say. You may
had the biggest butt in high school and your schoolmates make fun of you; NEVER
let this past experience pull you down but instead see it as a motivation to
prove to them (and yourself) that you CAN have a lean body. So, instead of
saying “I am this way ever since and I’ll be this way forever”, tell your self
“I may be like this ever since but I am bound to prove to them that I can do
this.”
Go easy on yourself because you are a work in progress. You have
to know that losing weight healthy is a gradual process; from a pound of burger
to half a pound to a quarter pound until you are satisfied in eating a healthy
salad. So, if you are tempted to eat a piece of that blueberry cheesecake, go
ahead and have a piece and learn to forgive yourself.
4. Don’t blame your genes
Your parents as well as all the people on top of your family tree
are obese; does this give you an excuse for being obese? DEFINITELY NO! Though
genes play a part in your body shape and your susceptibility to gain weight, it
is still YOU who makes the decisions on what to eat and how much you workout.
Don’t let the people around you stop your from being healthy. Be inspired by
the sexy Jessica Alba who grew up with a “heavily overweight” family. She was
determined to be in shape and she succeeded and now, she is one of the sexiest
women in the world.
5. Keep track of your progress
To help you get motivated, keep a journal or a scrapbook where
you can post your weight loss progress as well as how you feel about it. This
will help you bring out your feelings and motivates you to continue eating
healthy and exercise regularly. As you read back on the pages, you would
appreciate your efforts and notice that you feel happier each day. Heidi Klum
takes a picture of herself nude every week to track her progress in shedding
off the post-pregnancy weight; this motivates her to exercise and caused her to
lose 30 pounds in 6 months.
6. Praise your progress
If you notice that you lost a pound, give yourself a pat in the
back and say “I DID GREAT!” Losing weight is definitely not as easy as it may
sound so every progress (big or small) that you achieved should be recognized.
7. Compliment yourself regularly
To help keep you moving, you must constantly remind yourself
that you are a beautiful person. You must learn to compliment yourself first
before you expect others to compliment you. Personally, I face the mirror every
morning and tell my reflection “Good Morning sunshine, you look stunning
today!” These words are in my head all day and helps boost my self-esteem.
8. Treat yourself
You have been eating less than you usually do and completed your
workout routine for the week; aside from complimenting your progress, you
should also treat yourself. You could treat yourself with a day in the spa, a
new dress that you have been eyeing for months, or even a bite-size of your
favorite chocolate. You deserve it!
9. Have a BFF nearby or someone who can motivate you
Congratulating yourself can keep you motivated, but hearing
somebody else’s compliments can greatly boost your self-esteem a gazillion
percent. Human as we are, we love to hear that others tell us that we look good
and this motivates us to look even better causing us to double our efforts to
lose weight.
10. Be a happy person
Depressed persons tend to eat more and don’t have the drive to
exercise causing them to gain even more weight and eventually become obese. On
the other hand, happy persons have all the energy to workout and think before
they eat, thus they are learner and healthier. By simply staying happy, you get
to project a positive aura causing people to compliment you thus boosting your
self-esteem and your desire to look better by losing weight.
